{"id":1205,"date":"2024-07-22T20:02:53","date_gmt":"2024-07-22T20:02:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bittmanbliss.com\/wordpress\/?p=1205"},"modified":"2024-07-24T16:35:04","modified_gmt":"2024-07-24T16:35:04","slug":"do-you-find-yourself-being-defensive-rather-than-loving","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bittmanbliss.com\/wordpress\/do-you-find-yourself-being-defensive-rather-than-loving\/","title":{"rendered":"Do you find yourself being defensive rather than loving?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #1a1918;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Take a mome<a href=\"https:\/\/bittmanbliss.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/July-22-2024_bittmanbliss.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-1186 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/bittmanbliss.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/July-22-2024_bittmanbliss-300x300.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bittmanbliss.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/July-22-2024_bittmanbliss-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/bittmanbliss.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/July-22-2024_bittmanbliss-1024x1024.png 1024w, https:\/\/bittmanbliss.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/July-22-2024_bittmanbliss-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/bittmanbliss.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/July-22-2024_bittmanbliss-768x768.png 768w, https:\/\/bittmanbliss.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/July-22-2024_bittmanbliss.png 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>nt to open and breathe into your heart.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1a1918;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Then ask yourself some really, really good questions like\u2026<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1a1918;\">\u201c<span style=\"font-size: medium;\">am I really sure I&#8217;m right?\u201d Can&#8217;t answer yes to that question ever!<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1a1918;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Or \u201cIs it more important to be right in this moment than to shine my light? Is it more important to be right in this moment that to foster a connection with the person I love the most, isn&#8217;t this a magnificent opportunity to be a better sailor through the seas of love?\u201d<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1a1918;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">It&#8217;s ironic to me to think about how much I gain from just letting go of needing to be right. Again, I gain access to my heart. I gain connection to my heart and connection to the other person.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1a1918;\"><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">I regain the freedom to be truly present, to I regain my joy. And best of all, I regain my ability to love.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Do you need a tour guide in your journey from head to heart?<\/p>\n<p>We offer 1:1 coaching and a 4-week HeartMath&#x2122; mentoring program, all offered on a \u201cpay as what your heart dictates\u201d basis. ? 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